Ah, the age-old debate: syndication or direct ownership? To carry or not to carry? You’ve probably seen the glossy Instagram reels of some syndicator celebrating a refinance with confetti and craft cocktails, babbling about passive income and generational wealth. But beneath that well-filtered exterior lies the real question: do you actually want the privilege (read: crushing responsibility) of GP carry? Buckle up. We’re going deep into the mechanics, myths, and mild existential crises of real estate investing at scale.
Defining the Battlefield – Syndication vs. Direct Ownership

Syndication 101 (But Make It Brutal)
For the uninitiated—or the blissfully ignorant—syndication is the process of pooling investor capital to acquire assets too large for most mortals to handle alone. The General Partner (GP) structures the deal, sources the asset, raises the funds, operates the business plan, and collects fees along the way. In return, they promise the Limited Partners (LPs) a share of the profits and some nice quarterly emails with vague references to “value-add progress.”
But here’s where it gets fun: syndications aren’t charities. Those attractive IRR projections? Often contingent on the GP hitting very ambitious targets while navigating fluctuating cap rates, construction delays, and tenants who think paying rent is optional. When those things go sideways, guess who still gets their asset management fee? Spoiler alert: it’s not you, dear LP.
Direct Ownership – Where Control Freaks Thrive
If syndication sounds too much like trusting other people (ugh), direct ownership lets you run the asylum. You own the property. You make the calls. You deal with the vendors, the tenants, the insurance renewals, and the occasional 3 a.m. pipe burst. You control the destiny of your investment and, by extension, your cortisol levels.
Direct ownership works well if you’re convinced nobody can run a deal better than you (and you're willing to prove it over the next 5–7 years). The upside? You keep all the profits. The downside? You also keep all the problems.
The GP Carry – Glory, Guts, and (Maybe) Gross Disappointment
What Even Is GP Carry?
Ah, the magical “promote.” GP carry is the extra slice of profits the General Partner takes after certain investor return hurdles are met. It typically shows up in waterfall structures where LPs receive preferred returns first (say 8%), and then profits are split—often heavily favoring the GP once the deal is humming along.
It sounds amazing in theory. You do all the work, crush the business plan, beat the pro forma, and boom—here’s a 20% carry on millions in profits. Except, reality doesn’t always cooperate. Because before you hit that hurdle, you may spend years grinding out meager cash flow while staring at your own dwindling liquidity.
GP Carry Math – Where Dreams Go to Die
If you haven’t already modeled out a syndication waterfall in Excel and regretted every life choice that led you to that moment, congratulations on your innocence. The problem with GP carry is that it only looks great when the deal goes well—really well. Average or underperforming deals? Suddenly your projected payday shrinks faster than your resolve during a capital call.
Consider a $10M equity raise with an 8% preferred return and a 70/30 split thereafter. If you exit at a 1.5x multiple after five years, congratulations—you just earned GP carry on an underwhelming return profile that barely made it worth the anxiety. But hey, you got some experience to write about on LinkedIn.
Risk Profiles – If You Lose, You Lose Alone or with Friends
In direct ownership, risk is like your own personal pet. It sleeps in your bed and follows you to work. You get 100% of the upside and 100% of the downside. If the HVAC dies or a recession takes a sledgehammer to rent growth, there’s no buffer. You are the buffer.
Syndication spreads risk across more investors, but that doesn’t mean you’re immune to disaster. You might not be personally liable for every cost overrun, but LP capital evaporates just as easily as your sanity during due diligence. And unlike direct ownership, where you can pivot, LPs get the joy of watching someone else steer the Titanic straight into the iceberg.
Time Commitment – Passive Income, My Ass
Here’s where the sales pitch always goes off the rails. “Passive income” is the siren song of every real estate investment strategy, but let’s not kid ourselves. Direct ownership is a second job. If you thought you could just buy an asset and let it coast, prepare to be introduced to asset management in its truest, most exhausting form.
Syndication, on the other hand, is passive—until it isn’t. Sure, as an LP you’re just along for the ride, but as a GP? You’re basically a part-time therapist for investors, a full-time babysitter for property managers, and a professional firefighter when things inevitably go sideways. And there will be sideways.
Syndication can take an especially dark turn when communication breaks down. If you’ve ever had to explain an incomprehensible K-1 from a deal you barely remember wiring into, you know the pain. Direct ownership? At least the tax chaos is yours to own. Syndication? You get to blame someone else, but good luck getting Chad to answer your emails.
Fees, Fees, and More Fees – Did You Really Make Money, or Did Chad?
Let’s get real: syndications are built to feed the GP machine. Acquisition fees, asset management fees, refinance fees, disposition fees... you name it. Every line item on the closing statement has the potential to siphon off a slice of your upside. You might be thrilled with your 15% IRR, but guess who made that before you even got to pref? Yep, Chad.
Don’t think direct ownership gets off easy. You may avoid GP fees, but you’ll pay for property management, leasing commissions, legal fees, surprise CapEx, and a laundry list of “oh, by the way” costs. The only difference? You don’t have anyone else to blame but the mirror.
Exit Strategies – Pop the Champagne or Pass the Tums?
In direct ownership, exits are dictated by you. Want to hold through a downturn? Great. Want to sell the second cap rates compress? Go nuts. But the entire decision rests on your shoulders, and the market doesn’t always cooperate.
In syndication, the exit strategy often favors the GP’s incentives, which might include dragging things out to milk asset management fees or timing the sale for their next fundraise rather than your liquidity needs. And when the exit finally happens? Brace yourself for the final waterfall calculation where you get to see just how much of that “projected upside” trickled down to you after the GP got their cut.
So, Do You Really Want That GP Carry?
At the end of the day, GP carry is a double-edged sword wrapped in a gold bow. Yes, it can deliver life-changing payouts. Yes, it’s a path to scale and leverage. But it’s also a commitment to years of relentless problem-solving, investor management, and the sheer chaos of real estate cycles.
Direct ownership isn’t exactly a vacation either, but at least the buck stops with you. You can make the decisions, own the outcomes, and keep the entirety of your successes—and failures.
So, ask yourself: do you want the glory, the grind, and the GP carry? Or would you rather quietly stack your wins as an LP—or even better, a solo owner who doesn’t have to explain a busted waterfall at the next investor dinner? Either way, maybe give us a call at Invest.net. We’ll at least help you avoid being the next cautionary tale.